Coach Aaron Alexander

Aaron Alexander

Aaron Alexander

Aaron Alexander is renowned by all of his clients as the best dating coach on the planet. He specializes in helping men find happiness by getting more dates with more women.

What To Say To Girls

So many guys that struggle with talking to women their biggest problem is that they just don’t know what to say. So today I am going to tell you what the number one dating coach in the world talks about in his interactions with women.

1. I talk about Dating!

So the first thing I like to talk about is Dating! It’s mostly what I talk about when meeting these women. Why? Because it sets the frame. It gets her thinking about the two of us. It gets her thinking about being with me in a romantic setting. It puts me in that category in her head mentally. And it’s the fastest way to get to doing the things you want to with her.

This can include:

  • Talking about Inviting her on a date
  • Talking about a cool date spot you know of
  • Talking about other girls you’ve dated
  • Talking about her dating life
  • Role playing as if you two are already dating
  • Making assumptions about how she already wants to date you
  • Future projecting the two of you going on a date
  • Etc

The best part about this is that it is very man-to-women. There’s nothing about all of this that says: “I just want to be your little platonic best friend.” It lets her know how you plan to fit into her life. Any time she spends invested into you is an indicator of her interest in you, and that she’s ok going forward in the direction that all of these topics lead.


2. The Boyfriend Bomb!

The next thing I always say is I drop the Boyfriend Bomb
You gotta drop the Boyfriend Bomb on girls

Steps to perform the Boyfriend Bomb:

  1. Open her however you want
  2. Get to the middle of the conversation
  3. Hit her with the Boyfriend Bomb! The BB

“So why don’t you have a boyfriend?”
That’s it!

The Boyfriend Bomb is powerful! You’re not asking IF she has a boyfriend, you’re asking, why she doesn’t have a boyfriend. It’s fun, it’s flirty, it’s playful, it’s the fastest way to start sexualizing your conversations which a lot of guys struggle with. Always assume attraction.

You say out of the blue:
You: So why don’t you have a boyfriend?
She goes:
Her: “How do you know I don’t?”

You: “Well i don’t want to be too forward but you’ve definitely been flirting with me a lot throughout this interaction”

Her: “Really have I?”

You: “Yeah you know I see the way you’re looking at me, I don’t want to be too forward but you were definitely checking me out a lot”

This is also a great role reversal, you always want to be taking the common things that hot girls say and say them to the girls instead. Women are the best at game so steal their lines and techniques! When you do this, women will often not know how to respond, it’s that powerful, it puts you in control.


3. I always talk about online dating too

You: “What do you have a hinge account?”
Her: “No i don’t really use online dating”
You: “What do you like to meet guys out in public then? This is a perfect situation for you then isn’t it? What are you just one of those girls who tries to meet rich guys at the table? What are you going to Live tonight hoping to get a free bottle? What are you a bottle rat?”

Always talk about dating! Always talk about “Us” about the two of you.


4. I am always talking about what her and I can do together

You: “Oh you live over in Hilliard? Oh that’s pretty close to the zoo right? Have you been? Oh you haven’t been in two years? Oh let’s go to Zoo Lights this year,”
Her: “Oh really you think we’re gonna go to Zoo Lights?”
You: “Yeah one-hundred percent! You know what, there’s actually an Old Bag Of Nails over there as well, here’s what we’ll do. We’re gonna hit Zoo Lights first, and then we’re gonna hit Old Bag Of Nails but we gotta go on a Tuesday because that’s when they got all you can eat fish night.”


5. Watch Evolution Daily videos

Knowing all of this stuff about dating and pickup from watching Evolution Daily videos makes you practically a genius, there was a scientific study done that showed people who watch Evolution Daily videos have the highest IQs, so even a simple concept like abundance vs scarcity, you bring that up to a girl and frame it around dating? She will think you’re a fucking genius! Girls love when guys teach them shit, so teach them shit about dating, it shows social awareness, it shows that you know what you’re talking about, it shows intelligence, she might start thinking that you’re good in bed while you’re talking to her!


So in conclusion my subject matter is US and I’m always talking about dating!

Dating, future projecting, role reversal, role playing, all of these are great things to talk about with women that will help you frame the interaction in a romantic direction.

Now go out there and talk to some girls!