Today I’m gonna tell you guys a story from my personal life. And it’s not something that I’m proud of. But it is something that’s really important for me as a dating coach to share with men.
1. Horror Story
So last year I was at a bar and I started to game this chick. And she’s fucking gorgeous. She was a super hot brunette with big tits, a tight little body, great ass, the works. I started gaming her and her friends a little bit too. I began really locking in with her though because I could tell she’s very interested in me. Now at some point she just goes “I’m married!” and holds up the wedding finger. And i’m like “alright fine! I don’t care!” And at this point in the interaction I’ve like really locked in with this girl. So I just go to the dance floor with my wings. We’re now out on the dance floor, we’re trying to dance with some girls or whatever together having a great time. And all of the sudden: Married Chick, let’s just call her “Married Susan.” Married Susan and her little thot friend come running onto the dance floor. So they’re out there now and they place themselves near us. Like right next to us in a packed dance floor. They’re grinding on each other, the one girl you can see her pierced nipples through her shirt. So Married Susan and her thot friend are now dancing with me and my wing and i’m thinking “Well, she’s married but, we’re just grinding this is pretty innocent.” And so we do that but it’s getting a little less innocent, it starts to get a little more sexual and now we’re front to front, and we’re grinding on each other. All of the sudden, not me, married Susan is getting nose to nose.
Now something I always tell guys is that once a girl starts showing you interest like that, you gotta just start pulling away. So I pull away and she just starts coming in and making out with me hardcore. Basically against my will honestly. So now i’m making out with a married woman and i’m not feeling great about it really, i’m a pretty moral guy, i’m really not that pumped about this.
So, we’re making out, and we end up moving off the dance floor over to the bar area with high table tops, we’re all partying having a good time. I was going sober back then so I wasn’t drinking or anything. I get to talking to this girl.
She gets to telling me that her husband is just living under the same roof and that they basically only are living together because they have a couple kids together. She tells me that her husband jerks off to porn and only wants to jerk off to porn and not fuck her anymore.
Now most guys would look at this girl and be like: “How would you not want to fuck this girl?” But the problem with porn addiction is that it gets so severe that your brain starts rewarding itself for watching porn and keeps reinforcing these bad behaviors. And now you got this beautiful girl but she doesn’t do anything for you because you’re brain’s all fucked up.
Men are hardwired biologically to spread our seed in multiple women. When you’re having sex with the same girl over and over and you stack on porn addiction, you just don’t want to have sex with that girl anymore because your brain thinks it’s getting laid with all of these images on a screen. This girl is a hot bad bitch but her husband doesn’t want to sleep with her.
So we get to talking about all of that and she starts alluding to things. She’s saying: “So what’s the plan for tonight?” And I am honestly not even running good game because I’m thinking: “Oh man, do I really want to even do this?”
2. Pulling A Married Chick
Long story short, she ends up losing her iPhone for a while that night, she was devastated, I felt bad. I was just sort of being a nice guy at this point, my wings and I helped her find her phone, she ends up coming home with me on the condition that she gets to use my shower. So we ended up coming back to my place to smash.
We smashed several times after that. And the only reason why I felt ok about it was because this dude was addicted to porn and he had actually cheated on her. That was the big one for me is that she had actually caught him cheating on her several times in the marriage and so they were just totally staying together for the children at this point.
So what i’m trying to get across here is that porn addiction is not just something that‘s bad for guys that are trying to learn game, pickup girls, have a great sex drive, and raise testosterone. It will absolutely ruin a marriage!
3. Kill Your Addiction To Porn
Another thing no one talks about is that there is no puss in the world that’s going to squeeze your dick as hard as your hand can. When you are just squeezing on your dick all the time, it gets more desensitized and you can’t stay hard because you’re not even as physically stimulated during sex as you would be with your hand. So now it comes time to sleep with a girl, and you’re thinking about how you can’t stay hard with the girl, you start enjoying sex less and less and go back to porn, which ruins your game, it’s a vicious cycle.
So guys listen, every once in a while i’ll watch porn but usually if i’m jerking off i’m think about girls i’ve fucked, girls i’ve come close to fucking, I switch to my imagination. Try to break free from porn addiction. Otherwise you’ll end up like the guy who was addicted to porn while his bad bitch wife was out banging Aaron Alexander from Evolution Daily.
Again, I’m not proud of the fact that I did that for a while, but it happened. It’s life and men need to be aware of these things. Just don’t be that guy, keep your sex drive intact. You have a limited time on this planet, if you’re going to ejaculate, doing it while also having connection with hot chicks instead of alone in a room looking at a screen. Addiction is a slippery slope and usually ends with depression and I don’t want that for you, depression will not in any way help you achieve your dreams or get you the women you want.